BBW Myths
The second we type people, whether we are that type or the person looking at or for the type, then a whole host of assumptions can be piled on, or as a natural defense we might rally those clichés around ourselves.
In the sexual market place generally women suffer greatly over what is assumed from their body type. Men can get away with being a few pounds overweight, going grey, but a woman in this day and age must appear perennially young and fit-according to whatever the paradigm of being fit is these days-and she will be instantly labeled whatever body type or age she is. Be an attractive lady with a couple kids and you might be given that MILF label, be a lady with an hourglass figure and you might be called a BBW. And while the labels themselves are not pejoratives the minute they are dolled-out assumptions can be made.
The classic big beautiful woman-and what places a woman in the category of a BBW person is as much nebulous as anything else-is not any less or more sexed because she is a BBW then any other woman. The BBW does not seek a smaller guy or girl because she wants to be the physically imposing person in her relationship any more then she will seek a man or woman just as thick in stature as she is. The label might indeed be used by a BBW to proudly describe herself, it might be thrown upon her by others, but the label does not the lady, or anybody, make.
Because our physical natures are so readily discerned, because we can see somebody’s skn color, the facial characteristics, their height and weight, these are the markers we use to describe people and are in turn what sometimes attract or repel us from looking for dates.
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