Most big women are so overly conscious about their bulk that they’re carrying that they try and avoid sex because they feel too embarrassed about their bodies. But, the reality is, there are a lot of men out there seeking BBW for dating!
There are the ones who can’t have sex without the lights off because they don’t want their partners to see their bodies. That’s definitely the wrong approach! You can’t keep declining invitations for a rendezvous just because you feel awkward to undress your bigger body in front of him. Some men love sex with a BBW, and that’s why they are with you! How long can you go on curbing your desire to get intimate because of your fat?
You need to understand that the man who wants to have sex with you already knows that you are bigger. Men have a unique sense of being able to visualize what a woman would look like when she is naked, so even if he hasn’t seen you yet, he has definitely pictured it in his mind. So bear in mind that he doesn’t have a problem that you are a BBW or else he wouldn’t have come to you in the first place.
Althgouh this is probably the most important thing to remember, you need some advice on how to overcome your initial inhibitions and to enjoy sex to the fullest.
Get yourself into some sexy lingerie, but avoid anything that is too skimpy. A corset style shirt with keep your waist clinched and will add firmness to your breasts at the same time. Garter belts and thigh high stockings can be used to disguise big thighs.
Wear some stilettos and strut around naked in front of your man. They will add elegance to your walk and they will make you look taller, which will make you look less bulky.
Remember, there is not need to turn off all the lights. You can dim them a little to give it a romantic atmosphere, and you wont feel too conscious about your body. More importantly, your man will be able to see only the major curves of your body, which he will love, and the your chunks or cellulite.