The first date jitters come to all of us. There’s a certain directness in modern casual sex dating of the sort we find on the average adult friend finder personals site. We know that there are certain expectations present from the moment we look at the other person’s profile. We know a lot about what he or she desires, and then we seek out people with compatible lusts and wants of our own. There’s no need to pretend that we’re out for a long term relationship or marriage when we’re simply looking for some hot erotic connections.
But it is not clear if this creates more or less pressure on us when it comes to the first date. We know that there is a very good chance the clothing will come off this very night, and so even as we exchange our first pleasantries we’re wondering more than ever how that will go. Such free sex is liberating, but it leaves us vulnerable at the same time. Will the object of our affection be willing to overlook what we may perceive to be the flaws of our body? Will our parts be too large or too small, too hairy or too plain for their tastes? Read the rest of this entry »
Do you wish you were single? Here’s why you should be:
1. Monogamy is Boring
Casual sex with the same person over and over and over again is boring. There’s only so much experimenting a couple can do after a while. Once you’ve dressed as the big bad wolf and she as little red riding hood, and then you as little red riding hood and she as the big bad wolf, it might be time to part beds. Seriously, how far do we have to go to force ourselves to like sex with one another after a while? Should it be that much work? Especially since your cock swells three sizes when you see your next-door-neighbor doing yoga on the front porch every morning, and all she’s doing is standing mountain pose…in her sweatpants.
2. Non-Monogamy is Fun as Hell
Welcome to the world of adult dating, aka fucking whomever you please, whenever you please. Yoga girl adores doggy style. The postwoman likes it quick and dirty on the living room floor. Your best friend’s wife loves secret make out sessions with you after her husband has too much wine spritzer at the BBQ. The world is full of possibilities, my friend, and if you’re locked down, you’re missing out. To women, newly single men are like catnip – totally irresistible and conducive to rolling all over the floor with.
3. A Little Bit of This, A Little Bit of That
There are so many ridiculously stunning and wondrously different types of women out there! There are big beautiful women, little women, tall women, women with massive breasts, women with perky, unpretentious breasts, women with round juicy asses and women with asses like a new peach. And, as I mentioned in number two, they all fuck differently; some are porn all-stars, others want it shy, sweet and deep. Need I say more? The single life, my man, is much better.