In our feisty little minds we may have an image of ourselves that has nothing whatsoever to do with reality, whether we are giving ourselves way too much credit or not nearly enough at all. The good news is that we can all make use of the many Adult friend finder websites that are available online to help us to meet wonderful and appropriate people to date, to have a nice chat with, to begin a new romance with, to have some hot and steamy sex with, or even to possibly fall madly in love with. It is never over until it is over, after all.
If we were to run around our towns and interview one hundred different people, we would probably notice one hundred different outlooks on the subject of Sex, dating, romance, and of course love. There are no two people on the planet who have the same preferences, the same likes and dislikes, the same quirks, the same fetishes, or the same desires. It is precisely all of these different strokes that are preferred by all the different folks that make the world keep spinning around. Read the rest of this entry »
Fat women have every right to peruse a sexual relationship. They have every right to fall in love. In today’s world the percentage of fat people has increased greatly. Super model skinny is usually found on teenage girls but the modern woman wearing a size 14 to 16 is now the new average. Yet she is still classified as a PLUS sized, fat, women. Big boned, pump divas and fat hotties are women that one will see at the office, at college, at the gym. They don’t hide but to many people they are invisible.
When polled men and women both agree that large women go out of their way to accentuate their femininity. They buy more perfumes, get their hair done more often and spend more when they shop for fashions. In the art of femininity and sexual attraction both men and women love the imagery of a large tub filled with bubbles. Magazines have been selling bubble bath for 50 years using the same magazine ad concept, a beautiful woman in the tub covered with luscious bubbles. Read the rest of this entry »
Since the beginning of time women have wanted to move fat from their stomach, thighs or ass to their breasts. Today it is possible for plastic surgeons to be able to enlarge a woman’s breast using her own body fat. Some techniques include fat grafting as well as the reshaping of the breast to create a more natural feel and look to the boobs. The procedure of using transplanted fat has been around since 1995. Read the rest of this entry »
Many men love to surf the bbw sites to see who is out there to possibly hookup with. If you just crawled out from under the nearest craggy rock, bbw stands for big beautiful women, and the world wide web certainly has no shortage of them. The men that love, admire and adore bbw can chat with them, date them, romance them, and even plan a hot hookup with them in the flesh, pun most definitely intended. Read the rest of this entry »
When it comes to sex, hetero guys are such visual creatures they really don’t need much else to get them off then to look at their girl or even just spy a body part peaking from clothes. Too many women complain that their men objectifies them, only ever wants to see their breasts bared or them bending over, but really men have no choice but to act the way they do since they are prompted to be stimulated easily and stimulated by the visual.
The Sex sites on the Internet have more options for us than we could possibly ever even begin to imagine. There is something for everyone out there in cyber space, and for many men, bigger is most definitely better when it comes to women, and there is certainly no shortage of bbw, or big beautiful women, sites out there on the world wide web.
Most of us have been raised with the notion that bigger is always better. People always seem to want the biggest house on the block, the biggest diamond engagement ring, the biggest and most important job that is available, and the biggest and most fabulous reputation. For some reason as Americans we have learned to equate things that are large with things that are valuable. Many of us will choose restaurants that serve large portions, even though there is more than we need or could possibly eat on our plates. Some of our wedding receptions are so large and lavish that it sometimes crosses the line into revolting and distasteful. But we want to make a big splash and be big shots whenever we have the opportunity.
For many men, the thought of an extremely large woman is very erotic and enticing. They feel that if they love women, a very large big beautiful woman just presents more to love, more flesh to enjoy, and larger and more exaggerated body parts just waiting to be enjoyed and gotten lost in. While some men love the super model thin type of woman, there are a good portion of men who will purposely seek out a very large size woman for their sexual encounters. Is this related to the concept of bigger is better? Who knows for sure?
As any man who loves big beautiful women will tell you, who cares what the reason is as long as it works and works well? For many men, it is go big or stay home.
There seems to be a big shift happening in the dating world with more and more men seeking BBW and women seeking BHM. It could simply be that the population is getting bigger and heavier. The percentages of the population that is overweight or obese in nearly every country is increasing every year so everyone is getting more accepting of a variety of sizes because it’s is rapidly becoming the norm and people are getting adjusted to it. In the past, men would hesitate to openly date large women, no matter how attracted they might have been to them. Societal pressures often kept them from dating the body type that he was truly attracted to. Many larger women can tell stories about men who wanted to sleep with them in secret but not date them in public.
A lot of bigger ladies have crazy stories about married men that practically stalked them and begged them for sex, complaining that their wives were skinny little things and that’s never what they were really attracted to. These days there are all kinds of online personals specifically for BBW dating. There are BBW sex hookup sites and BBW sex parties. The voluptuous ladies are being recognized as the sex goddesses that they are, and men are no longer hiding their interest and attraction. It’s sad that people have to hide their true desires, but it’s even sadder that our society makes it necessary to put down one body type in order to uplift another. The joke used to be about the fat chicks but now all the jokes seem to be switching to the skinny chicks. Jokes about people’s bodies, regardless of body type or size, should ever be okay. We should all strive to be as healthy as we can be and understand that there are a lot of different body types and sizes in the world and that everyone who is trying to be their best is just great for being who they are.
A woman’s weight should not be a unit of measure in which she judges her self worth. There are plenty of men seeking sex that search for a BBW because they find them sexy and fun to be with. Your weight is just a number, nothing more. How a woman treats others is the true measure of who she is as a person.
If a overweight woman finds herself alone after the break up of a long term sexual relationship she should do a little self image repair. It could start with making a list of ones assets, talents, and her accomplishments. She should add to the list by including people that she admires and who love her. These are all gifts to be grateful for. And any woman finding her ego shattered and her self confidence waning should try focusing on the positive aspects of her life and stop making the negative things a primary focus. Remember that self confidence is sexy and it attracts men.
Read the list daily and try to add to it. If others want to judge you by your weight ignore them and their negative comments. Join a size positive workshop. Focus on you and make you a better person. Remember that what research studies say about obesity totals to one mess of confusion. It can be heredity, sedentary lifestyles, a virus, the food we eat or stress or any combination of these. How can we fix it if science doesn’t fully understand the causes. Yo-yo dieting only messes with a woman’s hormones and makes her less likely to lose any weight.
The truest way to fight the battle is to be the best one can be, the happiest and most fulfilled regardless of the weight. And fat or thin you are worthy of being loved, your life has value and as long as you feel confident and happy there will be someone in your life that knows this and appreciates you.