The Big Girls Guide To Sex

February 8, 2011 at 3:52 pm (Adult Dating, BBW, Casual Sex, Lingerie, Size-ist, Stereotype) (, )

It is official: curvy girls aren’t getting booty. A new study shows that online a third of women of a size 16 or over have sex in a week, compared with double that for size 8 girls.

What is ever worse, of the 3000 women surveyed, one in ten of those who are obese say that have not had sex for a years, simply because they hate the thought of their partner seeing them naked.

There are some men seeking BBW, but most aren’t. Something needs to be done about the sizeist attitude in the bedroom that a lot of people in today’s skinny loving society.

“It isn’t always the case that thin women are most happy with their bodies, but they do tend to be more confident in the bed,” says sexpert Kate Taylor.

“Slimmer women, for instance, are generally happier looking at themselves in the mirror and paying attention to every nook and cranny because the media often dictates that their figure is a more desirable one to have.”

The sexpert says, “they are therefore more likely to be preened and perfected than larger ladies, who often shy away from paying attention to the one thing they are ashamed of-their body.”

So, ladies, if you’re feeling conscious about your curves between the sheets, try these tips:

Food for thought: Have a romantic candlelit dinner which includes plenty of leafy green vegetable and spices like ginger and cinnamon. They are natural aphrodisiacs and have high contents of zinc that can seriously boost sex drive.

Invest in a saucy nightie: Sexy underwear doesn’t have to mean crotchless panties and barely there bras. A lot of men get seriously excited about a bit of mystery too.

Stand up and be counted: Sex standing up can induce some of the most explosive orgasms and it can also make you feel a lot slimmer.


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BBW’s Will Not Be Marginalized

January 27, 2011 at 4:51 pm (Adult Dating, BBW, Stereotype) (, , )

The fashion and entertainment industry have made it clear that the only way people are attractive in this world is if they are thin. All you have to do is look around you and you will see which look is getting top billing. If you want to stand out from the crowd, in a positive way, you’ve got to be thin, athletic, and have not a speck of flab on your body. There is no room for big boned girls because they don’t fit what beautiful or sexy looks like on our culture.

Too many BBW’s were left with the choice of starving themselves, purging, or exercising the weight off in order to be marginalized into a stereotype left on the outside looking in.

But, all of a sudden, BBW determined that they were happy with who they were, how they looked and would not take the forced determination of the fashion world telling them that they couldn’t be sexy and beautiful just like thinner girls. It would be up to these women to make  stand for themselves and tell the world they are beautiful in there own way!

BBW have came a long way! They are featured in modeling ads all over the world, there are tons of men seeking BBW for dating, and they are even taking the adult entertainment industry by storm. There is some sort of fascination that some men have with BBW which is totally a good thing! It’s better than no attention for BBW.

However, there are still a lot of people who make BBW the target of late night jokes and even songs. But, BBW”s are no joke and shouldn’t be treated as invisible women. Men should love all with, in every shape and size, with the same love and respect everyone in turn should expect from others.

So guys, get out there and get yourself a BBW because they are great!


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