If we were to run around our towns and interview one hundred different people, we would probably notice one hundred different outlooks on the subject of Sex, dating, romance, and of course love. There are no two people on the planet who have the same preferences, the same likes and dislikes, the same quirks, the same fetishes, or the same desires. It is precisely all of these different strokes that are preferred by all the different folks that make the world keep spinning around. Read the rest of this entry »
Most big women are so overly conscious about their bulk that they’re carrying that they try and avoid sex because they feel too embarrassed about their bodies. But, the reality is, there are a lot of men out there seeking BBW for dating!
There are the ones who can’t have sex without the lights off because they don’t want their partners to see their bodies. That’s definitely the wrong approach! You can’t keep declining invitations for a rendezvous just because you feel awkward to undress your bigger body in front of him. Some men love sex with a BBW, and that’s why they are with you! How long can you go on curbing your desire to get intimate because of your fat?
You need to understand that the man who wants to have sex with you already knows that you are bigger. Men have a unique sense of being able to visualize what a woman would look like when she is naked, so even if he hasn’t seen you yet, he has definitely pictured it in his mind. So bear in mind that he doesn’t have a problem that you are a BBW or else he wouldn’t have come to you in the first place.
Althgouh this is probably the most important thing to remember, you need some advice on how to overcome your initial inhibitions and to enjoy sex to the fullest.
Get yourself into some sexy lingerie, but avoid anything that is too skimpy. A corset style shirt with keep your waist clinched and will add firmness to your breasts at the same time. Garter belts and thigh high stockings can be used to disguise big thighs.
Wear some stilettos and strut around naked in front of your man. They will add elegance to your walk and they will make you look taller, which will make you look less bulky.
Remember, there is not need to turn off all the lights. You can dim them a little to give it a romantic atmosphere, and you wont feel too conscious about your body. More importantly, your man will be able to see only the major curves of your body, which he will love, and the your chunks or cellulite.
The fashion and entertainment industry have made it clear that the only way people are attractive in this world is if they are thin. All you have to do is look around you and you will see which look is getting top billing. If you want to stand out from the crowd, in a positive way, you’ve got to be thin, athletic, and have not a speck of flab on your body. There is no room for big boned girls because they don’t fit what beautiful or sexy looks like on our culture.
Too many BBW’s were left with the choice of starving themselves, purging, or exercising the weight off in order to be marginalized into a stereotype left on the outside looking in.
But, all of a sudden, BBW determined that they were happy with who they were, how they looked and would not take the forced determination of the fashion world telling them that they couldn’t be sexy and beautiful just like thinner girls. It would be up to these women to make stand for themselves and tell the world they are beautiful in there own way!
BBW have came a long way! They are featured in modeling ads all over the world, there are tons of men seeking BBW for dating, and they are even taking the adult entertainment industry by storm. There is some sort of fascination that some men have with BBW which is totally a good thing! It’s better than no attention for BBW.
However, there are still a lot of people who make BBW the target of late night jokes and even songs. But, BBW”s are no joke and shouldn’t be treated as invisible women. Men should love all with, in every shape and size, with the same love and respect everyone in turn should expect from others.
So guys, get out there and get yourself a BBW because they are great!