A Friend Indeed
If you are one of the many men seeking sex you can still be a very decent and honorable person even though you’re horny. In fact being decent and honorable and avoiding being a sleaze will get you into a woman’s panties faster than being a jerk. You want to remember that when you are looking for free sex partners you are still encountering real people with feelings. You never want to get someone’s feelings hurt because you took advantage of them.
It may seem like more fun to be a sort of bad boy but the truth is you can accomplish this without being a mean spirited and callous person. There may be times when you scored and thought wow this is going to be a really great fuck only to have the sex land flat. It may just be that the two of you weren’t compatible. You don’t have to hurt the girl’s feelings by announcing it to the world. If you spare them and show yourself to be a decent person this could turn from a lousy fuck into a valuable friend. They may be very eager to help you out and get you hooked up with someone who is looking for the same thing you are. This could be an invaluable tool and one that other guys who are sleaze bags don’t have.
You could find yourself heads above the rest and with no rivals in sight at all. If your new friend introduces you or spreads the word that you can be trusted and relied upon you might even find yourself with some really great opportunities. There is always the chance of even scoring a girl, girl, guy threesome because of it. But remember that women talk about everything and everyone. So if you were callous, if you were rude, if you didn’t get her to orgasm that information would spread and you could end up getting frozen out for being a jerk. On the other hand being a gentleman could score big time for you.
If you are among the men seeking sex always remember that you are dealing with real people with real feelings. Remember that you can make massive head way when you empower other people around you. You want others to feel better about themselves and more capable. The key here is to make someone feel positive about what they have to offer, build up their self esteem. You want to ideally be in the business of making friends.
You want to avoid making enemies because the world will supply you with enough on it’s own. If you make it your point to make friends and allies everywhere you go then you can easily insulate yourself from a lot of negative things. If you are looking for constant dates you can find that this job is a whole lot easier when everyone considers you a great person. When they know that you always go out of your way to help others and give people a hand up you can make a lot of good things happen for yourself. One of the key aspects to this is patronage.
You want to do favors for other people so that they will in turn owe you favors. You can then trade those favors up to do greater favors for more people which in turn leads to bigger and better favors owed you. If you collect these and use them wisely you can wrack up an impressive amount of personal influence with people. This influence can be more lucrative than money or power or anything else. It can lead you to all of those things.
With all of these things at your beck and call you can find the kind of sex or relationship you desire with little trouble at all. This will easily separate you from the people who go about things badly and carelessly. You want people to think fondly of you in every area. This is where real gain comes from.